I used to constantly tell people how I thought they should solve their problems. I thought I was trying to be helpful but truthfully that is far from what I was doing. I had a family member tell me it would be nice if I just listened instead of constantly giving advice about situations. Sometimes people just need to express themselves and dont really want a solution. I think I have taken that criticism to heart and have tried to be better about listening and empathizing and waiting to be asked for my opinion instead of freely giving it wanted or not. It has helped my relationships. I do catch myself slipping every once in a while, but am reminded of their words the moment I start spewing my thoughts.