Feedback from a friend, concerning areas I need to work on....from his perspective/judgement.

Control. “They say that the need to control is the last demon to die.” This does not mean to give up control. But I have a judgement that you give up too much. My biggest advice for you is to give up or change something big. For me, it was giving up (1) Xbox and (2) I was a huge ABA person…anything but Apple. In other words, do not hold on to things as a false promise land. It was a fundamental change in all things and putting something else much higher in my order, but that was not all. I kept moving and changing. Things that made me uncomfortable I got comfortable with. That is one of the things I say, “I am comfortable being uncomfortable.” I would still rather game today, but I don’t. I will make a conscious effort to do something different.