As I reflect on many of the "problems" that have popped up in my life, whether in relationships or in the difficulties that are part of living, it occurs to me that my PERSPECTIVE (how I choose to interpret the challenge) is always the beginning of navigating it in a healthy way. Wayne Dyer has this quote, "When you change the way you see things, the things you see change." It has been THE critical skill that has made all the difference in my life. I wish I could give that gift to everyone.